How can I be vocal during sex?
- Start outside the bedroom. Your first goal should be to talk about bedroom activities outside the bedroom.
- Ask yourself important questions. Before telling your partner what you want, it’s a good idea to start by asking yourself a few questions.
- Fill your partner in.
- Discuss likes & dislikes.
- Roll with it.
What is a grunt in sex? If you boil it down to basics, grunts – one of the sounds we most often associate with sex – are the body’s physiological response to exertion. We release these noises when we need more oxygen, signaling the body to deliver it via our ‘laryngeal muscles’.
Why do men sleep after sex? “A man’s body chemistry changes after orgasm,” says David McKenzie, a sex therapist in Vancouver. “The biochemical prolactin is released, physically altering his body and making him very tired.”
How many times should I have sex? How much sex should a couple have? Once a week is a common baseline, experts say. That statistic depends slightly on age: 40- and 50-year-olds tend to fall around that baseline, while 20- to 30-year olds tend to average around twice a week.